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TL;DR: From the heroic end of Tony Stark to an embarrassing “Costanza moment” during Home Alone, I’m exploring why some movies hit the father-son nerve so hard. It’s a look at legacy, vulnerability, and why true strength means having a heart that’s still soft enough to break.

As WordPress continues to recycle old prompts, I pulled another prompt from The Coffee Monsterz Co to respond to today

Is there a movie that has brought you to tears?

Confession time: I’m a bit of a softy. I’ve been known to cry once or twice during a movie (insert sarcastic “Noooo” here). While it doesn’t happen every time, it happens more for me than it does for most guys. Honestly? I think the idea that crying is a sign of weakness is an insecurity. Some are more afraid of being perceived as weak than they are of being vulnerable. I wouldn’t change my emotional side for the world; I don’t want to be numb. Being stirred up—happy, sad, or angry—reminds me that I’m alive.

Part of the Journey is the End

The most recent time I remember a theater full of sniffling was during Avengers: Endgame. If I’m spoiling a seven-year-old movie, my apologies, but Tony Stark’s heroic sacrifice was a heavy hit. Even now, repeating his final line gives me a lump in my throat: “Part of the journey is the end.”

But the movie that truly rendered me a blubbering mess was the 1993 film My Life. Michael Keaton plays Bob Jones, a man diagnosed with terminal cancer who records home videos for his unborn son. As his time runs out, he reconciles with the family he once tried to outrun.

When the Son Becomes the Father

There is a scene near the end where Bob is bedridden and withering away. His father is at his bedside, gently helping him shave. In that moment, the roles reverse; Bob becomes the child again, being cared for by the man who gave him life. Bob whispers a soft, “I love you, Dad,” and in 1993, I absolutely lost it.

I was 19 then, just beginning to appreciate the father-son dynamic. I haven’t watched the movie all the way through since. I know that if I watched it today at 51—having lost my own father and now raising two sons of my own—I would be a wreck. It brings to mind a line from Superman Returns—[which I’ve written about previously]—where Jor-El tells his son: “The son becomes the father and the father becomes the son.” That’s the beauty and the heartbreak of legacy.

The Costanza Confession

Now, for a deeper, darker confession. I may have once pulled a “George Costanza” and misted up during Home Alone. Yes, the slapstick comedy. But hear me out: the ending where the “scary” old man next door reunites with his estranged son hits those same father-son nerves.

Beyond that, when Kid 1 was eight years old, he bore a striking resemblance to a young Macaulay Culkin. Going through my divorce and being away from him at the time made that movie hit me in a way I never expected. Seeing a kid find his way back to his family wasn’t just a holiday trope; it was a reminder of what I was fighting to protect in my own life.

The Strength in the Break

Both movies serve as a reminder that death (and distance) is undefeated. We don’t know how much time we have, and it forces us to ask: What are we leaving behind? Not just for our children, but for the world?

I think back to leaving that theater in ’93 with my friend, both of us misty-eyed and shaken. I’ve realized since then that there’s a specific kind of strength in being gentle enough to let a story break your heart.

Writer’s Note: Talking about legacy and loss can sometimes bring up heavy emotions. If these themes hit a little too close to home today and you find yourself struggling, please know you don’t have to carry it alone. Reach out to a friend, a professional, or a support line like the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Strength isn’t just about feeling the emotions; it’s about knowing when to ask for a hand.

Avengers: Endgame and Home Alone are streaming on Disney+

My Life (1993) is currently streaming on Tubi.

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