It’s been a while. Â Let’s see if I remember how to do this…
A LOT has happened since last I wrote. Â One-and-a-half weeks ago, I was offered the job in Eastpointe – the one I didn’t even apply for. Â I interviewed on a Tuesday; completed all my paperwork on a Wednesday and was in the classroom teaching on Thursday. Â I worked all of last week and that brings us to the present.
I have to admit, it’s far from ideal circumstances. Â Work is a 1 1/ – 2 hour drive from where The Auteur and I live; so I’m staying at my parents’ house during the week, and going home on weekends. Â The first coupe days weren’t so bad. Â I worked two days and went home for the weekend. Â This past week was my first full week of work. After living together for the last year, being away from The Auteur for almost an entire week sucked. Â Doing that again Monday through Friday this week – and every other week for the rest of the school year – seems almost too hard to imagine. Â I know, I know – I’m being a little melodramatic. Â Truck drivers go through the same thing. Military families have it even worse. Â The thing is, I don’t drive a truck and I’m not a soldier, and I want to be home.
This wasn’t an easy decision for us to come to. Â And yes, this is something that The Auteur and I discussed at length. Â The truth is, I need this job. Â I need it for The Auteur and the life we are building and living together. Â I need it for The Kid – so that I can be a good father to him. Â Finally, I need it for the sake of my career. Sure I had a few years experience under my belt, but that ended 6 years ago. Â Employers are going to start asking “What have you done lately?”; so this will be good when pursuing other jobs in the future.
All in all, I feel like I’ve taken a small step backward in order to make several giant steps forward. Â I’ve talked at moderate length before about wanting to get started with the rest of my life. Maybe its finally happening.
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