Back in college, I had an Educational Psychology professor who said “feelings are”. It sounds corny, but it really is true. Feeling are neither good nor bad, positive nor negative; they just are. However, I won’t get too far into semantics. I understand what the prompt means by negative feelings, so I’ll bite.
Unfortunately, negative feelings are something i have to deal with more often than I would like. Even though I have my anxiety pretty well under control, every now, and then I do get hit with a flash of it, usually when stress is pretty high. I feel like I have it to a point not unlike people who suffer from migraines. I there are things that I can do sometimes to be proactive when I feel anxiety starting to rise. If I leave it unchecked, however, it’s almost paralyzing. I’m pretty much useless for a good portion of a day.
Move!
First and foremost, I try to keep busy. There have been a few times that I can think of specifically when kid 2 was with me, and I started to feel my anxiety rise. Those moments, we had to get out of the house. We would go grocery shopping, or even make a trip to the recycling center; anything just to get moving.
Movement, any kind of activity, allows me to get out of my own headspace for a little bit and focus on the moment.
Work out
Exercise has always been another great coping mechanism for me. Everything they say about the release of endorphins is true. Once I start working out, if I can get through the first 10 or 20 minutes, the endorphins start to kick in and I find that I want to keep working out even more. I guess you could say I’m a little bit of an endorphin addict. But, there’s worse things that I could be addicted to.
Write it out
As I’m sure, most of my fellow bloggers can attest, writing is a great coping mechanism as well. If I’m in a headspace, where I can write, if the anxiety hasn’t taken too much of a hold over me, it is a good release valve. I have especially realized this to be true over the last six or seven months since I’ve been writing on a daily basis.
Writing, whether it’s blogging or attempting to be creative, helps me process my thoughts. sometimes when I write, it helps me get to the heart of my anxiety – whatever it may be in that particular moment.
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