I’ve been thinking a lot about this stuff lately. This felt kind of timely, with the new year approaching…
I feel like a few of these mistakes delve too much into stereotypes, but most of them are pretty much true.
For a long time, I looked to articles like this one for affirmation in my decision to divorce. These days, I see articles like this, mentally check everything on the list and wonder to myself “how did my marriage even last as long as it did?”
One of my personal favorites…
I saw this the other day and felt like sharing it. While I may not agree with one hundred percent of everything written herein – particularly the “only you can fuck it up” – it does a pretty good job of summing up most of my feelings on love and relationships, particularly from the male point of view…
A decent read, and good advice for all the divorced; though it doesn’t say much about those of us who are out-of-state dads.
One of The Auteur’s Facebook friends challenged another friend to list their 15 most influential movies. I’m posting about this on my alter-ego Facebook page, but I decided to take the opportunity to expand on said list. Challenge accepted. So here are my 15 most influential movies…
Star Wars – my first true movie-love. Star Wars taught me how to dream.
Rocky (Any of them, or all of them) – The ultimate underdog story of our time. Any, or all of the Rocky movies will suffice.
The Matrix (the first one only) – In addition to being the most influential sci-fi movie of the last 25 years, this movie reminds me that the only limits are one’s imagination. There is no spoon, indeed…
Napoleon Dynamite – another underdog story. A surprisingly powerful story about love, family, friendships and perseverance.
Dead Poet’s Society – The movie that really made me fall in love with English Literature and made me want to be a teacher.
Silver Linings Playbook – A story about a less-than-perfect guy trying to rebuild his life. ‘Nuff said.
The Lord of the Rings Trilogy – Before the Lord of the Rings Trilogy, no other movie had done as good of a job of transporting me to another world since Star Wars. “All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.”
Swingers – another great guy movie. This one taught me that sometimes you are are money, even if you don’t know it.
Singles – A movie that captured a great moment in time: the Seattle musical movement of the early 1990s and a series of great inter-connected love stories.
Pulp Fiction – By far, the most influential American movie, of any genre, of the last 30 years. Timeless and yet so relevant.
Finding Nemo – A modern day version of The Odyssey, and a great father-son story about a father who takes on an a nearly-impossible task of finding his son; and becomes a man along the way. I don’t care what anyone says, Finding Nemo is Marlin’s story. Period.
Fast Times at Ridgemont High – another movie that really capture a moment in time for me. It follows the real calendar by which young Americans live…the academic school-year calendar.
Field of Dreams – A man who go to any lengths to answer his inner calling. A true father and son story, and it revolves around baseball.
Superman: The Movie – Yes, I’m a Batman guy, but this is still, the stick by which all other superhero movies are measured.
There’s my 15. Thoughts…?
The first time I ever heard of Mitch Albom, was when he was just a sportswriter for the Detroit Free Press. Although I think he has tried to branch out a bit much over couple decades, I absolutely loved Tuesdays with Morrie. In fact, it’s the first novel that I taught as a student teacher.
I think he raises some great points in this piece. The furthering of certain agendas – including but not limited to those of lesbian couples and single mothers – has not only pushed their respective agendas, but also diminished the role of men and fathers in our society as well. I don’t think it was through any malice; it’s just the way the cultural pendulum shifts after the status quo in one particular extreme for do many years.
A good one. I originally planned to share this one a few weeks ago.