I don’t think it’s fair to say – as a blanket generalization – that either gender has it harder during divorce than the other. I honestly believe divorce, like all things in life, is like a case by case basis. the writer hits the nail on the head when she says that men experience a sense of identity loss following the end of their marriage. the only thing I would disagree with in that section is that I believe that most people let their career – if they have one – define their identity even more so than marriage. In my opinion, this article only scratches the surface on men’s health issues surrounding. Furthermore, I do feel that more men than ever are seeking counseling during and after marriages.