The Never-Ending Chore, and The Decision

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Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.

If there’s one thing that is always I have on “to do list” that never gets done would be cleaning / straightening the house. That’s not to say that I don’t clean my house or that I love in. Rather , straightening out the house is a constant “work in progress”. Like fashion, cleaning the house never feels as if it’s “done”. Other things just end up taking priority.

This is assuming, of course, that I understood the prompt correctly. To me, people have their every day “to do list“ of things that they need to accomplish in a given day. But then, there’s also the idea of writing out long-term goals, such as I’ve done on my blueprint for 2024. Note to self: I’ll probably need to evaluate where I’m at with said blueprint by the end of March.

I’ve been thinking a lot about the blueprint, over the last few days and particular. Specifically, I’m thinking about going back to school. My problem is, I still can’t decide if I want to do grad school for another English degree, or I want to try law school.

The idea of going into family law and working for me going through divorce is something that has appealed to me ever since my own divorce. For a long time, I thought that my divorce would be “my Batman moment” – an event that forever alters the trajectory of my life (like the death of Bruce Wayne’s parents). I’ll go on to those Facebook groups for men and intuitive advice or encourage where I can. Sometimes I’ll read someone’s story and just shut down. It gets to new to much for me; maybe too personal.

Me in the future, or maybe just me in an alternate universe.

On the other hand I love teaching. Since I started, I haven’t been able to imagine doing anything else. No matter how hard some of the kids can be, no matter how bad of a situation they may come from, I know I can handle it. I’ve realized for a long time the teaching really is the thing that gets me out of bed every every every morning. I don’t know if I could say the same about going into law

I’m just not sure how important law school is to me. The decision is something I’m going to really try to focus on this month. Maybe the fact that I haven’t seen any action on going to law school is just me already having made that decision.

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5 responses to “The Never-Ending Chore, and The Decision”

  1. Kevin Avatar

    Someone once told me that if you have to think about it that much, then maybe it’s not the thing for you. Not saying that’s true in your case, because understandably, it’s a huge investment of time, money and resources that shouldn’t be taken lightly. But I will say that advice has guided me well a few times in my life.
    Good luck with whatever you decide, Rob. I am sure you will be successful no matter what path you choose!

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    1. rebuilding rob Avatar

      Thanks Kevin! I think you’re right about the overthinking aspect of it.

      Whenever I’m working with my students and they don’t seem like they know what they want to do with their lives, I just tell them that your choice will just present itself. You’ll wake up one day and realize that you’re doing exactly what you want to do.

      I think I need to take a little bit of my own advice

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      1. Kevin Avatar

        Well, most of us forget the sage words we impart upon others when it comes time to apply them to ourselves, so you are not alone there, Rob lol
        But the words you tell your students definitely have the ring of truth to them. When it’s right, you just “know” somehow.

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  2. MaryG Avatar

    It’s so great that you love teaching!

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  3. Allen Bunch Avatar

    Teaching definitely makes you feel like your life has a deep profound meaning. I find it quite enjoyable as well.

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