I’ve gotten myself out of the habit of revisiting old WordPress prompts, but this one caught my eye today, and I had to respond.
In previous attempts at this prompt, I’ve talked about words that I felt were overused in general. Today I’m going to turn that focus toward a word that I overuse and would like to stop using so much.
I would give up the word “actually”. It’s not a filler word – like but, um or you know – but I feel like I use it way too much. You know that you personally use a word too much when you annoy yourself with it. I can’t imagine what people think when they hear me say it all the time.
I think I started using the word “actually” in second or third grade. I’m assuming I started using to excuse I thought it made me sound smart. But then as time went on, and I understood the meaning of it, it became a part of my everyday vocabulary. My problem now, as is the problem with most people who overuse a word, is that I’m just comfortable with it.

Have you notice that I’ve gone out of my to not say “actually” too much in this post?
Doing a little research for this topic, I didn’t realize that so many other people had an issue with this word. In fact, THIS 2012 piece in The Atlantic that called actually “the worst word in the world”.
I try, at times, to replace the word “actually” with “technically,” but I think that makes me sound like even more of a pretentious douche when I say that. Maybe I can just insert the occasional “Well..” or a “Yeah, but…”
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