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The Audacity of Unplugging
Is technology outpacing our humanity? From the rise of AI in search engines to the inevitable future of AR goggles, it’s easy to feel like we’re losing our grip on the real world. In this reflection, I look at why choosing to “unplug”—even for a few hours—has become the ultimate…
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The Autobiography of Malcolm X: My Personal “Bible”
I’ve read The Autobiography of Malcolm X more than any other book. It’s not just a memoir; it’s a manual for rising from rock bottom. Discover why I treat this book as my personal bible for cutting through the noise, maintaining discipline, and doing the work without the glitz.
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The Last Man Standing: A Manifesto
Being the “fixer” for family, friends, and neighbors is a heavy burden. I’m exploring the weight of being the “last man standing” and the boundaries men must set to protect their mental health and relationships.
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Rob Reviews: Supergirl (2026)
Supergirl (2026) is the latest DCU entry, but does it soar or stumble? I’m breaking down Milly Alcock’s complex performance, the surprising ‘space-western’ aesthetic, and why this story might have been a bit too much, too soon for the new DC Universe.
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The Lifelong Learner’s Pivot: From Carcass to Compassion
Is being a ‘lifelong learner’ just a hobby, or can it be a catalyst for professional growth? I’m reflecting on my decision to return to graduate school for an administrator certificate, the lessons I’ve learned from past leadership, and why I’m finally embracing a new call of duty: I can…
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The Field Test: Why This Time is Different
Building the Four Pillars was just the beginning. In my 5 AM post, I talked about the ‘Laboratory of Change,’ but theory is nothing without practice. Here is how I’m moving from defensive boundary-setting to offensive implementation—and why my latest field test with Sierra feels different than anything that came…
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The Laboratory of Change
1,000+ days of blogging has been more than just a habit—it’s been the laboratory for my evolution. From deciding to return to graduate school to dismantling the ‘circles’ of my past relationships, I’ve learned that the most important work isn’t just documenting events; it’s excavating the person I was always…
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The Foundation: Rebuilding with the Four Pillars
How do you build a life that lasts? After navigating the “hard years” of 2012 and 2020, I’ve defined four essential pillars—The 100% Policy, Option C, The Art of Moving Slowly, and The Audacity of Potential—that now guide every decision I make. This is the blueprint for rebuilding with intention.
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The Hard Years: Salvaging the Rubble
What defines our ‘Hard Years’? For me, it’s 2012 and 2020—two pivotal chapters of divorce and a long-term relationship ending that threatened to topple my world. But looking back, I realize these weren’t just ends; they were the beginning of the work. Discover how I moved from reacting to the…
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Rob Reviews: American Psycho (2000)
Is American Psycho just a violent satire, or is it a deep dive into the collapse of identity in the 1980s? In this review, I break down the film’s striking visuals, Christian Bale’s chilling performance, and why the “faceless” yuppie culture of the 80s serves as the perfect antithesis to…