What is the meaning of life?
Come on, WordPress! This is a little clichéd, isn’t it?
If you ask me, the meaning of life is remarkably simple: be a good person and make the world a better place for others. I’m reminded of that Jackie Robinson quote: “A life is not important except in the impact it has on other lives.”
The Trap of the Simple Answer
But maybe “simple” is the trap. The idea sounds easy, but in practice, it’s an enormous undertaking. In the United States, we live in an incredibly self-centered, greedy culture. For a lot of people, looking out for anyone but themselves goes entirely against their programming.
I’ve been watching these videos on TikTok lately of people running marathons or 10Ks. A runner will collapse from exhaustion just yards from the finish line. It’s sickening to see how many people just sprint right past the fallen person. Honestly, if you aren’t going to win the Boston Marathon, what is the actual difference if you finish in 47th or 48th place? Who gives a shit? But people will still choose their own tiny, meaningless milestone over helping a fellow human being who is suffering.
Usually, thankfully, there’s at least one good person who stops to help.
Breaking the Bystander Spell
But there is a bit of a bright spot for humanity hidden in those videos, too. Often, the moment that one person stops, a couple of others immediately jump in to help. It shows that a lot of people aren’t necessarily heartless—they’re just terrified to take that first step. They freeze because they are waiting for permission. It reminded me of a realization I had the other day: the world is starving for leadership. And honestly, that might be the biggest tragedy of all. We are so conditioned to mind our own business that we have to wait for someone else to step up and lead before we have the courage to show basic human decency.
Everyday Heroes vs. The Grand Scheme
Being good to others doesn’t require massive, sweeping historical gestures. It’s just a matter of doing whatever you are individually capable of in that moment. It’s letting the car merge in front of you. It’s holding the door.
It reminds me of the Superman movie that came out last year. A lot of people walked out of that theater talking about how it inspired them to teach their kids to be everyday heroes. My takeaway was even simpler: Superman is a good person because his parents raised him to understand that it’s just the right fucking thing to do. There’s no complex, noble philosophy behind it. You just do good because you can.
I’ll admit, I have a quiet fantasy for the rare times I play the lottery (and lose spectacularly, by the way). My dream isn’t a massive mansion. It’s having enough to ensure my kids are taken care of and I don’t have to worry—and then taking the rest to be a sort of low-key philanthropist. I don’t want to be Bruce Wayne. I just want the freedom to stand in a grocery store line, see someone struggling to pay for their food or gas, tap them on the shoulder, and swipe my card. I’d give the rest away. I really wouldn’t give a shit.
Living in the Grift
Maybe that sounds pie-in-the-sky. But the alternative is what we’re stuck living through right now.
We are living in a cultural moment where the bad guys constantly succeed. We watch people climb to the top of the mountain by stabbing friends in the back and stepping on necks. We are watching the biggest grift in American history play out from the highest offices in the land in 2026, and I genuinely hate living in this moment. I can’t wait to see what future history books say about the absolute madness of our current political landscape.
But that brings me back to my original point. Good and bad are universal concepts. If you look at the world today and you genuinely can’t tell the difference between decency and evil, you are failing as a human being.
It really isn’t that difficult. Don’t let fear freeze you up. Stop running past the people who collapse. Be the person who stops so that others have the courage to follow.
No glitz. Just be good.
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