• message misfortune

    Well, I called her. I called SHG.  At least the number she gave me – which was a Sprint number. i think she said she had Sprint on her cell phone. I left a voice mail. That’s all I can do… It’s funny because it got me thinking – about…

  • an interesting night…for all too many reasons…

    Another happy hour with the social club has come and passed. I took some advice from the bathroom graffiti tonight and “avenged my dreams”. SHG showed up. just when I thought she wouldn’t. I got her number, or “A” number I should say. I tried to call it while at…

  • Why husbands who share household chores miss out on sex

    Why husbands who share household chores miss out on sex Of course, in my case, I split the household chores, did the “manly stuff” and it STILL wasn’t enough for the STBX.  This is just further evidence that it’s possible to do everything right and still fail.  There’s just no…

  • Workplace Discrimination: The Hidden Discrimination Divorced Dads Face At Work

    Workplace Discrimination: The Hidden Discrimination Divorced Dads Face At Work. via Workplace Discrimination: The Hidden Discrimination Divorced Dads Face At Work. A very interesting read.  something I have never given much thought to, even though I have noticed it in my own experiences with my 5 year old.  It’s sad;…

  • another first

    another first

    I like professional wrestling.

  • Protected: quicksand

    Protected: quicksand

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  • the four horsemen of divorce

    Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling – these are the four horsemen of divorce.

  • relapse

    relapse

    she’s the first woman I’ve been really attracted to in a long time.

  • Double shot

    Double shot

    Once again, I have managed to go out twice in the same weekend. Friday night was the social club‘s happy hour.  SHG was there; Red was not which made for some pretty good conversation fodder. We talked a couple times, but she had 2 guys hovering over her the entire…

  • when it rains…

    when it rains…

    I just got in from going out for the second time in as many nights this weekend. Thanks to one of my ubiquitous, clandestine informants, it has come to my attention that one of Phred’s friends from the social club, whom I shall refer to as “Ivy” admitted to liking…