• Something new and something old

    Something new and something old

    Mother and The Old Man had a pretty cool idea for Black Friday 2012.  They had earned enough “comp points” at Motor City Casino to get dinner for 4 on-the-house.  So Phred and I accompanied them to the casino this afternoon.  In addition, we were looking forward to going today as…

  • a war of attrition

    a war of attrition

    I haven’t put up an entry in 10 days.  The impending holiday and no classes has left me with a lot of down-time (but I got an entry or two that i’m working on).  Anyway, the down-time has allowed me some time to go through a “purging phase” and a…

  • a funny thing happened to me on my way to la-la-land

    a funny thing happened to me on my way to la-la-land

    I thanked him for his consideration and told him that the STBX knows exactly what I wanted changed in her separation agreement

  • another happy hour…or four…

    another happy hour…or four…

    The social club  had another happy hour tonight – they seem to do one per month. this was was in a different town, so I didn’t expect the same crowd, per Sis’s words. The bar we went to had a live band called, i kid you not, Free Beer. They were…

  • boom

    boom

    I did it. I sent out THE PAPERS on Friday afternoon following a brief conversation the STBX and I had while I was at bowling on Thursday.  She asked me where the separation agreement was and then tried to lecture me on legal proceedings.  I even told her that my…

  • flipping the script

    flipping the script

    As the calendar creeps ever-closer to Halloween, it has occurred to me that I need to start making travel plans for the holidays, either for my son, myself, or for both of us. About a month or so ago, I suggested to the SBTX that we alternate visitations for Thanksgiving…

  • compromise, settling and Fixer-Upper Syndrome

    originally written October 24, 2012 I was driving over to my brother’s house Monday morning to babysit my niece and nephew and I stumbled across one of the ” a guy and a girl” morning shows that currently proliferate corporate radio, but i digress. Anyway, DJ guy poses the question…

  • it was 12 years ago today…

    it was 12 years ago today…

    I thought I had it all figured out.  That is, I thought I knew  what i was going to write about today.  I even started drafting an “open letter to the soon-to-be-ex” that I would post today.  For those of you who don’t know, today is me and the STBX’s…

  • youth gone wild

    youth gone wild

    I got a call from my son at about 2:40 today. He told me that he got into a fight at school, threw a pencil at another kid. to make matters worse, the school called the STBX so she would pick him up from school. As I talked to The…

  • flashpoint

    flashpoint

    As I was doing some editing on this blog earlier today, it occurred to me that I’ve never written about the impetus of this blog.  Obviously, telling the story of my impending divorce is the purpose of this blog.  There was, however, one moment that completely set me off.  One…