• Love Rears It’s Ugly Head

    Love Rears It’s Ugly Head

    I get a call from my attorney Thursday afternoon.  Not one of the paralegals, mind you, but the actual lawyer.  I’ve been calling his office for the last 2 weeks trying to get my summer visitation with The Boy to get put on the proverbial front-burner, since his last day…

  • approaching zero hour

    Time, as it often tends to do, has snuck up on me.  Two days from now is The Boy’s last day of school.  Three days from now will be 11 months since the day I left Charleston; and I don’t feel any closer to being “officially divorced” than I did…

  • A question of trust

    A question of trust

    This is definitely uncharted territory for me. I know I haven’t been in very many relationships in my life, but this is the most insecure I’ve been in any relationship I’ve ever had.  Not once, not for one second, did I ever question the STBX, or doubt that she loved…

  • Worlds collide

    As I spent Tuesday and Wednesday nights at The Auteur’s house, it started to occur to me just how much our lives are starting to intertwine.  Of course, this is probably normal for this stage of any relationship; but the accelerated pace her and I have been on seems to…

  • Hacked!

    About one month ago, I was singing the praises of match.com to anyone who would listen. After all, I met The Auteur through match. She alone has made a supporter of online dating sites. Out of respect to our budding relationship, I decided to cancel my match membership a few…

  • double down

    double down

    Have you ever had two bad dreams in the same night?  or was it just one really long  bad dream?  Only my mind  knows for sure…

  • uncharted territory

    Last week, the Auteur’s daughter, whom I shall affectionately refer to as “1B” said to the Auteur that she was ready to meet me. The Auteur ran this past me. I didn’t really have a problem with it. I work with kids her age (or a little older) all day…

  • Post-birthday beguilement

    The Auteur came out to my neck of the woods last night for a little birthday celebration.  We hung at one of those upscale multiplexes that are in vogue right now; spent way-too much money at their in-house glorified burger joint and didn’t even bother seeing a movie.  I knew…

  • On the 14,245th day, I reflected.

    I apologize in advance if this entry sounds like the liner notes to an album; but I think my heart is in the right place. Yesterday, for those who haven’t picked up on my math skills, was my 39th birthday and this is the youngest I have felt in years.…

  • three certainties in life

    Ben Franklin once said that the only two certainties in life are death and taxes. On this Tax Day 2013, I would humbly submit a third absolute to be added to this list: getting financially fucked up the ass during divorce proceedings. For the first time since actually leaving South…