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What does it feel like to look back at the person you were at the beginning of the summer and realize you wouldn’t even recognize him today?
If you had asked me back on June 1st what my life was going to look like right now, I probably would have given you a pretty standard blueprint. I would have talked about surviving the final two weeks under a retiring principal, limping across the finish line of the school year, enjoying a quiet summer, and maybe wondering what the next predictable step on the horizon was going to be.
Instead, my entire paradigm got picked up, shaken out, and completely rearranged.
We spend so much of our lives pushing for change, setting goals, or waiting anxiously for something to give, and yet the biggest shifts never happen the way we script them. They sneak in through the side door.
Three months ago, my mom was still at her assisted living facility. Three months ago, I took Sierra out for a completely platonic drink just to say thank you for some Detroit Tigers tickets. If you had told me then that we had been orbiting each other for five years—ever since our Facebook friendship anniversary popped up this week, reminding me of the old “wuss years” watching from the sidelines—I wouldn’t have believed that a casual text thread, a trip to Barcade, and a photo booth at Made Decade would quietly rewrite my entire existence.
And professionally? Three months ago we were just trying to keep the wheels on the bus. Now, I’m walking back into the exact same classroom—complete with a few hand-me-down pieces of furniture from the lobby that gave me the weirdest time-warp déjà vu this week—operating under a brand-new administration that wants to do things totally differently.
My home life looks different. My routine looks different. My heart looks entirely different.
Standing here at the tail end of August, looking around a life that feels completely foreign compared to three months ago, my mind is already racing to the next milestone. If the universe can completely upend my world between June and today, what in the world is life going to look like right after Thanksgiving?
I suppose that’s the beauty of it. You don’t get to map out the plot twists. You just have to show up, keep the streak alive, and see where the current takes you next.
Rebuilding a life takes grit, consistency, and a lot of ‘Option C’ thinking. Having crossed the 1,000-day milestone, I’m now charting the territory beyond. The mission remains the same: No glitz. Just the work. New to the blog? Start your journey here to see the blueprint and the ‘Tricorder’ perspective behind the rebuild.
Today’s post is inspired by the WordPress Daily Prompt. While I’ve taken the topic in my own direction for the Road beyond 1,000 Days, you can find more responses to today’s prompt HERE.
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