Category: Beyond 1000 days
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Burning the boats
We often keep ‘escape hatches’ in our back pockets, fearing that full commitment is a risk. Today, I’m burning the boats. From grad school applications to choosing a new path in my relationship, I’m exploring what it means to stop bargaining with the past and finally go all-in on the…
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Rob Reviews: Project Hail Mary
Is Ryland Grace a hero, or just a man with no other options? My review of Project Hail Mary explores why this sci-fi journey is more than just space exploration—it’s a masterclass in the human spirit, the thrill of discovery, and the power of connection in the vastness of the…
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Why I’d Erase Tattoos From History
Are tattoos still a sign of rebellion, or have they become the ultimate act of conformity? At 52, I’ve never gone under the needle, and I’m exploring why my commitment-phobia might actually be a sign of respect for my own personal evolution. From the “fringe” to the mainstream, join me…
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The Bear Paradox
f you had to be an animal for a week, which one would you choose? For me, the answer remains the same—a bear. But as I reflect during the Midsummer Classic, my reasons have evolved from simple strength to the art of hibernation. Discover why this teacher and creator is…
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The Autobiography of Malcolm X: My Personal “Bible”
I’ve read The Autobiography of Malcolm X more than any other book. It’s not just a memoir; it’s a manual for rising from rock bottom. Discover why I treat this book as my personal bible for cutting through the noise, maintaining discipline, and doing the work without the glitz.
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The Last Man Standing: A Manifesto
Being the “fixer” for family, friends, and neighbors is a heavy burden. I’m exploring the weight of being the “last man standing” and the boundaries men must set to protect their mental health and relationships.
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Rob Reviews: Supergirl (2026)
Supergirl (2026) is the latest DCU entry, but does it soar or stumble? I’m breaking down Milly Alcock’s complex performance, the surprising ‘space-western’ aesthetic, and why this story might have been a bit too much, too soon for the new DC Universe.
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The Field Test: Why This Time is Different
Building the Four Pillars was just the beginning. In my 5 AM post, I talked about the ‘Laboratory of Change,’ but theory is nothing without practice. Here is how I’m moving from defensive boundary-setting to offensive implementation—and why my latest field test with Sierra feels different than anything that came…
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The Laboratory of Change
1,000+ days of blogging has been more than just a habit—it’s been the laboratory for my evolution. From deciding to return to graduate school to dismantling the ‘circles’ of my past relationships, I’ve learned that the most important work isn’t just documenting events; it’s excavating the person I was always…
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The Foundation: Rebuilding with the Four Pillars
How do you build a life that lasts? After navigating the “hard years” of 2012 and 2020, I’ve defined four essential pillars—The 100% Policy, Option C, The Art of Moving Slowly, and The Audacity of Potential—that now guide every decision I make. This is the blueprint for rebuilding with intention.