• The Bachelorette Party Quandary

    The Bachelorette Party Quandary

    At the final bar of the night, I was once again forced to face the bane of the single heterosexual male’s bar/nightclub experience:  The Bachelorette Party.

  • Something new and something old

    Something new and something old

    Mother and The Old Man had a pretty cool idea for Black Friday 2012.  They had earned enough “comp points” at Motor City Casino to get dinner for 4 on-the-house.  So Phred and I accompanied them to the casino this afternoon.  In addition, we were looking forward to going today as…

  • a war of attrition

    a war of attrition

    I haven’t put up an entry in 10 days.  The impending holiday and no classes has left me with a lot of down-time (but I got an entry or two that i’m working on).  Anyway, the down-time has allowed me some time to go through a “purging phase” and a…

  • a funny thing happened to me on my way to la-la-land

    a funny thing happened to me on my way to la-la-land

    I thanked him for his consideration and told him that the STBX knows exactly what I wanted changed in her separation agreement

  • another happy hour…or four…

    another happy hour…or four…

    The social club  had another happy hour tonight – they seem to do one per month. this was was in a different town, so I didn’t expect the same crowd, per Sis’s words. The bar we went to had a live band called, i kid you not, Free Beer. They were…

  • boom

    boom

    I did it. I sent out THE PAPERS on Friday afternoon following a brief conversation the STBX and I had while I was at bowling on Thursday.  She asked me where the separation agreement was and then tried to lecture me on legal proceedings.  I even told her that my…

  • flipping the script

    flipping the script

    As the calendar creeps ever-closer to Halloween, it has occurred to me that I need to start making travel plans for the holidays, either for my son, myself, or for both of us. About a month or so ago, I suggested to the SBTX that we alternate visitations for Thanksgiving…

  • compromise, settling and Fixer-Upper Syndrome

    originally written October 24, 2012 I was driving over to my brother’s house Monday morning to babysit my niece and nephew and I stumbled across one of the ” a guy and a girl” morning shows that currently proliferate corporate radio, but i digress. Anyway, DJ guy poses the question…

  • it was 12 years ago today…

    it was 12 years ago today…

    I thought I had it all figured out.  That is, I thought I knew  what i was going to write about today.  I even started drafting an “open letter to the soon-to-be-ex” that I would post today.  For those of you who don’t know, today is me and the STBX’s…

  • youth gone wild

    youth gone wild

    I got a call from my son at about 2:40 today. He told me that he got into a fight at school, threw a pencil at another kid. to make matters worse, the school called the STBX so she would pick him up from school. As I talked to The…